“Seven and eight years old dogs hate dogs”. When children start to talk back, parents should learn to say these three words

Yesterday, I visited my relatives. As soon as I entered the door, I heard a roar coming from inside.

"Go and do your homework. When are you going to play?"

"Play till you die“

”I raised you so big that you pissed me off, didn't I? “

”Yeah“

I don't know whether I feel embarrassed or angry. My relatives beat the child hard with their hands. Her eight-year-old child, like an angry leopard, punched and kicked her.

Not yet relieved, the child even picked up the shoes and threw them at her, and said "kill you" viciously.

Anyone who is a parent will feel sad when he hears his child say such words. The relatives, who were originally threatening, sat on the sofa and cried.

Seeing this scene, my heart is also mixed with five flavors. It is said that being a parent is a practice, but sometimes it really tests people's endurance.

Especially when the children reach the age of seven and eight years old, they are full of the momentum that several cows can not be pulled back.

With independent will, they began to have the strength to fight against their parents. When you feel that they need your words, their reaction is to talk back and fight against you.

If you don't let up and continue to insist, the result of a positive confrontation will be childish to death. Even some people can't control their temper directly, yelling and scolding at their children.

But children aged seven or eight often don't feel afraid. Instead, they will treat you and fight back the way you treat him.

Therefore, some parents will feel worried and afraid, "I can't manage the child so small, and I dare not think about it in the future.".

To tell the truth, no matter who is in this parent-child relationship, they will feel collapse, anxiety, and even helpless sense of despair.

So, at this time, we need to understand why children of this age are so rebellious? Why did he start to talk back and disobey?

There are three periods of treason in one's life:

2-3 years old is the first rebellious period. At this time, children's self-consciousness begins to sprout.

6-8 years old is the second rebellious period, that is, the rebellious period of children.

12-18 years old is the third rebellious period, that is, the youth rebellious period.

In other words, children aged seven or eight have entered the second rebellious period of their lives. The reason why some parents feel distressed and unable to fight at this time.

The main reason is that children's self-consciousness is further awakened. They feel that they have grown up and do not need to be controlled by their parents.

They want to make their own decisions and do everything according to their own ideas. It can be said that the blood pressure from parents is no longer effective.

Thus, there will be a phenomenon that when he wants to do something, but his parents say no, he is not willing to listen.

Moreover, the more his parents refused, the more he was rebellious and had to do it.

If parents always feel that their children must listen to their own words, or they are hopeless, conflicts will often break out in the family.

What should parents do when children answer back?

When the child starts to talk back, it means that he is growing up and has his own ideas and opinions. The main reason for family conflict is that he and his parents have different ideas.

Professor Li Meijin believes that children in the rebellious period need guidance from their parents. When the child answers back, don't refuse to prohibit it first. Try to say this:

1. If you don't like it, you can say it, but you can't say such hurtful words as "I hate you".

2. If you don't want to, your parents will respect your opinion.

Don't be rigid, because children don't know how to put down their obsession. On the contrary, when you let go, they will suddenly give up confrontation.

3. I know you are angry now. Please calm down first.

Children at this age can't control their emotions and are easy to get angry. When children talk back, parents should first calm down and not get into a dead end. Then guide the children to control their emotions.

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